Never forget that insecurity lies to you in your own voice. The stories we tell ourselves about ourselves are not necessarily the objective truth.
The ways we have failed in the past are not reliable data points about our future, Especially when we choose to apply an affirmative narrative.
You can decide that your outcome will be better even before you have taken any action. Instead of saying “I haven’t done well in this area”, try using “The next attempt will be my best one so far”.
Instead of being informed by a record of the past, we can begin to update the narrative about the future.
Desirable results begin with authoritative self encouragement and confident intentions.
This is the way.